There used to be times in my childhood when we would be crazy about
collecting marbles. We would manage to collect a big box full of many
varieties, including marble sized ball bearings which were actually worth
their weight in gold! But this craze would fade after sometime and we would
embark upon collecting ‘matches’. (labels of match boxes). Every shop
around our school would have a chart hanging in front of the shop on which
would be pinned packets containing ten labels each. Each packet would be
10 paisa. But the charm was not in buying. It was in winning them by
playing games designed for the purpose, exchanging with friends, skillfully
bartering and so on.That would last a year or so and then there would be
another craze.
One of our madness was collecting empty packets of cigarettes. We used to
keep a keen eye on the ground while walking to school and back and also any
other time we were on the road. We would dash in here and there, even to
the middle of the road - ignoring traffic - to pick up empty cigarette packets
discarded by smokers. (It was the time of few Vespas and Lambrettas and
even fewer Ambassadors and Fiats on the roads and hence I am still sitting
here, typing this, my life and limbs intact) During free time we would visit
all the nearby kiosks selling pan and cigarettes and eagerly collect empty
packets scattered on the ground around them. A boy who lived in a family
full of smokers was considered luckiest !
But not all cigarette packets were equal. Charminar, Camel, Passing show,
were almost dirt. Scissors and Berkley were somewhat more valuable.
London Navy Cut came next. One would have to shell out ten Charminar
for a London Navy Cut but would get a Scissor for five (Only beginners went
for these exchanges). Wills was a little more valuable and so was Four
square. Gold flakes was among the top few Indian brands.
But If you found a Marlboro or Dunhill or Benson and hedges on the ground,
it was a gold mine ! Those packets would be very carefully stored in the safest
of places for which one’s own brother would have no access !
There were many games to be played using these packets and you won or
lost depending upon your luck and skill. But the collection invariably grew in
size and in due course touched a thousand or more. They would be loaded
in all empty boxes, bags and nooks and corners of the house causing irritation
to the senior members of the family and evoked severe admonitions. They
would threaten us that the entire lot would be thrown in the fire (which
was used to heat the bath water) but the threat was never converted
into action.
Suddenly a day would dawn when we would have had enough of this craze.
A sudden detachment from the activity and possession. Few friends would
casually join together and decide to do away with the assiduously collected
and highly treasured stacks of cigarette packets. We would empty all the
secret places, bring the entire collection and dump it in a vacant site in the
neighbourhood. We would sit quietly looking at the huge mound of cigarette
packets and then one of us would go and get a match box. He would look at
all others for confirmation and after receiving a go ahead, indicated by a
slight nod of heads, would light the match and nonchalantly set fire to the lot.
Flames would leap up in seconds and in a minute or two the entire lot would
turn into ashes. We would sit silently for a few more minutes solemnly
watching the last of the packets turn into ash and return to our homes silent
but without any feeling of loss or sadness.
We would have fought tooth and nail the previous day for the possession of
that valuable stuff but the next day it would feel worthless and we would just
burn it down and return. Total detachment ! ‘Vairagya’.
I was reminded of this when I was listening to a composition of
Sri Purandara dasa. It goes “ಆಡುವ ಮಕ್ಕಳು ಮನೆಯ ಕಟ್ಟಿದರು, ಆಟ ಸಾಕೆಂದು ಮುರಿದೋಡಿದರು.
ಹೀಗಿರಬೇಕು ಸಂಸಾರ”. - Build your life like a child building a house for play -
and getaway like the child breaking the house after the play ! (The song is sung
beautifully by Sri Upendra Bhat and is available on the net.)
Children built a home for their play
They just broke it in the end and ran away
People came together on the market day
They packed up in the evening and went their way
Traveller entered the guest house for a night’s stay
He woke up in the morning and walked away
And you better live your life this way !!
